November 01, 2007

Halloween Wrap Up

Lisa Schiffren over at The Corner, in a general rant about Halloween, winds up with a positive observation that resonates with me:

But, on a happier note, the media has again misled me into unnecessary anxiety. I read, yesterday, in the Washington Post about all the local Virginia parents who are so upset because their young daughters want to be sexy witches, sexy maids, sexy nurses, sexy, sexy sexy…you get the idea. The claim was that it was impossible to find traditional princess, witch, and fairy tale costumes in mainstream stores — and anyway the cool girls don’t want them. I took the story at face value — because I live with three preteen girls and it's clear to me that one has to actively resist the cultural push toward early displays of sexuality (that the children themselves don’t always understand).

The good news, is that here on the famously liberal, progressive, non-judgmental, Upper West Side of Manhattan stores seem to have been selling far tamer costumes. In a 30 block walk home earlier I saw only Disney princesses, and fully covered witches, ghosts etc. Not one of the kids who have come to the door has worn anything remotely sexy.

So, either the Washington Post has overstated the sexy maid costume issue for prurient reasons — or my neighbors are more conservative on basic values than I thought. Either way… it works.

I happened to see that WaPo article, too, and duly shook my head over it. However, we took the two younger Llama-ettes around our NoVA neighborhood last evening (perfect night for a walk - cool and crisp without being outright cold) and I have to say that I certainly didn't see any young thangs flauntin' it. As with Lisa, it was the usual bag of witches, Disney Princesses and the like. The closest to teh sexy that I saw was a youngish teenager dressed as a flapper.

Incidentally, this was just about the easiest Halloween I've had. The seven and five year olds pranced from house to house with two little boys who live down the street, while their mother, the Missus and I strolled along the street quite pleasantly. About half way through, the five year old, who was dressed as a witch, suddenly decided that she wanted to be a cowgirl instead. She spent the rest of the evening cantering about doing a Slim Pickens "YEEEEEEE-HAAW!" imitation at the top of her voice. (The eldest Llama-ette had gone to trick or treat with her best friend. She was dressed in a long, black robe with some kind of trimming and a big hood and called herself some character or other from Harry Potter - Destructor? Destroyer? Summit like that. However, she could just as easily have been a Nazgul or Death itself. When she got home, she completely freaked the Missus by suddenly dropping a fairly life-like mouse into her lap.)

BTW, would anybody out there like some extra candy?


Posted by Robert at November 1, 2007 08:30 AM | TrackBack
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That would be a Dementor; they are the prison guards at Azkaban who induce feelings of despair in all around them.

Nothing too trashy came by our house last night; best costume was an eight or nine year old dressed as a gypsy foretuneteller in an embroidered dress that I suspect was a family heirloom. We had over 100 kids show up; we live on a large circle and people from all over town park at the end of our street and walk it. A few lazy parents stay in the car and follow behind the kids on the street.

Posted by: The Colossus at November 1, 2007 10:29 AM

The most risque costume we had show up on the doorstep was, I am guessing, a 12-year old boy dressed in normal school clothes with a cardboard sign hanging from his neck with, "NUDIST ON STRIKE!" written on it.

Posted by: Paul Phillips at November 1, 2007 03:30 PM

Not much inappropriateness here in Texas, either.

I'll be posting pictures of my 11-year old's costume soon: Master Chief. I made him a suit of authentic MJOLNIR armor from the Halo games using card stock and a pattern downloaded from the Internet. Copious duct tape and spray paint gave him a most authentic look. My daughter was a leopard (black tights, claws, leopard print leotard and cute cat ears, with a painted nose and whiskers). It would have been sexy on my wife, but looked appropriate on her; and there were some other "cats" her age in very similar dress.

The oldest (now 13) went as a football player. Everybody who came to our door was pretty traditionally attired. Much fun.

Posted by: JohnL at November 1, 2007 09:32 PM