July 06, 2005

The Stuff To Give The Troops

Sheila posts a wonderful letter of advice that F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote to his then 11-year old daughter Frances while she was at camp. I am strongly inclined to print it out and nail it to the Llama-ettes' foreheads. (Like Fitzgerald, I even have a cat I can whack if the gels don't pay attention to me.)

A sample:

Worry about courage
Worry about cleanliness
Worry about efficiency
Worry about horsemanship...[Robbo - But not yet. Not yet.]
Things not to worry about:
Don't worry about popular opinion
Don't worry about dolls
Don't worry about the past
Don't worry about the future

Now go read the rest.


Posted by Robert at July 6, 2005 11:32 AM | TrackBack
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One of the more interesting books I've read is the collection of Fitzgerald's letters edited by Matthew Broccoli. Fitzgerald actually becomes quite a moralist as he gets older, which people find surprising, given the usual portrayal of him as a hard-partying drunk.

What people miss about Fitzgerald is that while he is one of the voices for The Lost Generation, he never really approves of their behavior -- there is, under all his cynical veneer, a sense of propriety, order, and right and wrong.

Think P.J. O'Rourke as a modern day equivalent.

Posted by: The Colossus at July 6, 2005 01:40 PM

I don't find it all that surprising. Most great novelists may have had chaotic lives, or were drunks, or womanizers - but most also had a great sense of right and wrong - which is why their books are so powerful. Dostoevsky, Hemingway, Joyce, Faulkner, Melville ... Being a hedonist doesn't necessarily say anything about your moral sense. (Maybe it does more so through the light of our more moralistic time - when we expect our artists to be well-behaved, more's the pity).

Fitzgerald and his wife Zelda were the babes of the jazz age. They lived life spontaneously, messily - and they both paid huge prices for it (perhaps she paid more heavily since she was mentally ill).

I love Fitzgerald. Love his writing.

I felt like I had discovered a small gold mine when I tripped over this letter to his daughter.

Posted by: red at July 6, 2005 04:07 PM
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